Sunday, 6 July 2008

Anniversary

What does it mean???.. so what if it's just anOTERr day in your life? who would even have known?!!!
frustrating as it may sound but it means the world to me....
i just got married and on the eve of our 1 month anniversary, VERY unsuspectingly, i got SO SO SO angry and irritated with him (short of swearing)! either i need to know how to be the loving and tolerable WIFE or.... i need to be sensitive to his feelings "wife"!
BUT i bet he didn't even notice we got married a month ago today. ..and i had ALLL these plans to do things tday, hoping to surprise him... but no.......NOTHING happend! quellle surprise. maybe that'll be the story of our life.
acceptance is a virtue?

1 comment:

baby hopes said...

sweetie.........chill....you have too much expectations! i know in your mind that the one-month mark is special, and you're not wrong to think that way. everybody reacts differently. you're still excited by the title "wife" & you're still settling in to the role. but what role? just be who you were & still are. after all it is YOU he married not some person he hopes you will turn into. don't put too much pressure on yourself to live up to this image "wife". seriously, marriage SHOULD NOT change the way you guys have always been.